Losing someone in a relationship is like losing someone to death. It feels the same. You miss the person the same.
And it's hard to accept and believe the reality that we have broken up. Just like the difficulty of accepting a death.
We get over it eventually. But, it's hard and recovery may take a while.
We constantly think about the good times we shared together. And obsess about what happened and where it went wrong.
And sometimes we tell ourselves (just like with the death of a loved one) that we can't believe that they're gone. It seemed like we would spend forever together.
But forever didn't last as long as we thought it would.
So, we come to terms with our loved one being gone. And we accept that they are never coming back.
Accepting that death is a part of life (whether it's physical or the death of a relationship) can help us to find life of our own.... And live again.
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